November 8, 2009

Bad News

So what was supposed to be the most exciting time of our marriage has turned out to be the most heartbreaking. Danny and I went in for our first ultrasound and dr appt on thursday to find out that I had a blighted ovum and was fully 12 weeks pregnant with no fetus. It was truly shocking, heartbreaking and hard news to hear. So Friday we went for another look and the news was confirmed. Within a couple of hours they had me at the hospital prepped for surgery and the D&C was performed.
Through this whole hard process Danny and I know that Heavenly Father has a plan for us and for ourl ittle family. I dont think we could handle a little one with disablities right now if the fetus would have formed and it is common for complications to happen during a first pregnancy. So in a few months when our spirits are back up and my body has recovered we may try again. But for now I wanted to thank you all for maintaining our privacy and for all the love we've felt from your support and prayers. I am so grateful to be surrounded by such amazing family and friends and I wouldn't be doing so well right now without you all.

Again Danny and I appreciate your support and we'll be in touch in a few weeks.
xoxo

5 comments:

Jacque said...

Morgan, I am so sorry! I can't even express how heartbroken I am for you. Please let me know if there is anything you need. You are in my prayers.

Greg and Sarah said...

Morgan, I want you to know how sorry I am. I cant even imagine what you and Danny are going through. Please know that you are in my prayers. Love you and please let me know if I can do anything for you.

Annie said...

Ah, Morgs... You are really a strong gal to go through all that. I am certain that there is a reason for everything. I just love you guys and please know that you will be in our prayers. My sister has been through this too, so if you need someone to talk to that has been through it too, let me know :). I love you.

The Wettstein Family said...

My heart breaks for you. You will be in my prayers. I admire your strength during this great disappointment, and I know you will be blessed for your faith. Lots of love and luck being sent your way.

Candice@The Fellas and I said...

We love you guys and think about you daily. I hope you are well on your way on the road to recovery. (((HUGS)))